Nobody is perfect and whether or not people will admit it, almost everyone is insecure. As humans, insecurities are just as normal as any other emotion you may be facing. The difference that separate's one person from the next is whether you are able to control these emotions and keep them to yourself. Nobody likes dealing with anybody that is openly dramatic about their jealousy/insecurity of the next person just because you may feel threatened by competition. When in a relationship, the last thing you need to deal with is someone constantly questioning you about this person or that person just because your mind tells you something that may or may not be true. It all leads back to trust and if there's no trust in a relationship it will never work out. Regardless of what you lived through in the past, never let your insecurities dictate your future. All it ever does is push those that you love and care about away and the sad part about it is that you never realize what you have done until it truly is too late. All it does is label you as immature. The thing about trust nowadays is that it almost seems too good to be true when it really is genuine so in the back of your mind people assume the worst. Usually when people make assumptions about something they are NEVER good things. Every person is different and deals with "interrogation" differently. Some people can deal with you questioning them more than others on a certain level of mutual respect but don't lose control. There's nothing wrong with asking a question that may be concerning you, especially if you are committed to someone, but don't let it become an annoying nuisance just because deep down inside you are afraid to lose something special. Cause trust, when you lose that thing that matters most to you in your heart, it hurts like no other and there's no way to take it back...When its said and done, look in the mirror and never lose confidence in your own value and capability. It takes time, patience, and gradual realization to see that ones worth is purely a matter of perspective and never let another person drag you out your skin.
Friday, June 25, 2010
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Wow, I was in a situation today where I took my anger out on a loved one due to lack of trust etc - I feel like a pillock right now - because I couldn't agree more with this post.
ReplyDeleteFeel ya on this just wish u wouldve used some examples to make it more personal. But def deep on this one.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading this blog. You really captured "insecurity" frm so many stand points. I loved how at the end you really speak to your audience simply saying " look in the mirror and never lose confidence in your own value and capability" the real eye opener to anyone that has ever been insecure with themselves. I now have a new found appreciation for myself because at times I can be displeased with the way I look, dress, talk or even act. My approval of this blog goes beyond a 10.
ReplyDeleteThis is so true.
ReplyDeleteYou should have dropped an audio bite, the perfect song for this is Kanye West 'All Falls Down'. Keep it up =)
you really told the truth in this post...and what makes it even better is the fact that you're a guy..so many times guys rather not show true emotion..not all..but some..and you really told it like it was..just truth..and the sooner more ppl realize the truth for what its worth..the better we'll be...but until then...we only have faithful few..you being one of them..keep doin your thing..and tellin how you feel...
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