"What Are Your Friends Worth?"

Friends is something that pretty much everyone has. But have you ever taken a minute to really sit and think about what your friends are doing to benefit YOU in the longevity of your life? What is something that they are bringing to the table to help you accomplish your goals? Are they really helping push or just holding you back while they sit and do nothing for themselves? 

These are some of the questions that I think people don't really take the time to reflect on that much. When you have a group of people that are all pushing forward to better themselves and you have a freeloader friend that brings NOTHING to the table, yet they always want something from you, those people need to be CUT LOOSE. There's just some things you need to let go and that includes people. Your team is only as strong as your weakest link. I myself have been fortunate enough to weed out the snakes, fakes, trouble makers, phonies, frauds, and all around losers in life from my friends. If you're a grown ass man with no job, no car, living at home with your parents still trying to party every week or go clubbing and get at "hoes" you've got priorities BACKWARDS. And I'm not saying that just because you don't have a job or car or live at home that people should cut you off. Its all about the MENTALITY to want to better yourself and at least making the effort and wanting to do so. I'll be damned if Im gonna push hard to achieve my goals and people wanna freeload and join the bandwagon of success. If you call yourself a "friend" and you're not riding with me through the lows, there's NO WAY I'm gonna let you ride with me through the highs. And if you have friends that are CONSTANTLY involved in negativity, drama, or trouble, they need to go to. Thats only keeping a black cloud of unnecessary bullsh*t around you and it only takes one thing for you to lose focus on what you're trying to do. 

Overall, basically what I'm saying is really reflect on the people you hang out with in your life and really look at them in the LONG TERM. It might be fun and games for now but there's gonna be a time to grow up and if people aren't on the same page you need to keep pushing forward and LEAVE THEM BEHIND. You can still be cool with them but keep your distance and never lose focus on what YOU need to do...

"Insecurities"

Nobody is perfect and whether or not people will admit it, almost everyone is insecure. As humans, insecurities are just as normal as any other emotion you may be facing. The difference that separate's one person from the next is whether you are able to control these emotions and keep them to yourself. Nobody likes dealing with anybody that is openly dramatic about their jealousy/insecurity of the next person just because you may feel threatened by competition. When in a relationship, the last thing you need to deal with is someone constantly questioning you about this person or that person just because your mind tells you something that may or may not be true. It all leads back to trust and if there's no trust in a relationship it will never work out. Regardless of what you lived through in the past, never let your insecurities dictate your future. All it ever does is push those that you love and care about away and the sad part about it is that you never realize what you have done until it truly is too late. All it does is label you as immature. The thing about trust nowadays is that it almost seems too good to be true when it really is genuine so in the back of your mind people assume the worst. Usually when people make assumptions about something they are NEVER good things. Every person is different and deals with "interrogation" differently. Some people can deal with you questioning them more than others on a certain level of mutual respect but don't lose control. There's nothing wrong with asking a question that may be concerning you, especially if you are committed to someone, but don't let it become an annoying nuisance just because deep down inside you are afraid to lose something special. Cause trust, when you lose that thing that matters most to you in your heart, it hurts like no other and there's no way to take it back...When its said and done, look in the mirror and never lose confidence in your own value and capability. It takes time, patience, and gradual realization to see that ones worth is purely a matter of perspective and never let another person drag you out your skin.

Mars' 11 Categories of Hoes

So I've encountered many different types of women so far in my life and here's my conclusion. Many different females have different "Hoe Categories" they fall in. Some girls are labeled in more than 1 category and some of these are very similar. This is going to be very REAL and direct. WARNING...Don't take offense or get all butthurt. It is what it is and the killer truth hurts...haha

1.) The Groupie Hoe - These are pretty self explanatory. They tend to flock in herds. Celebs get to hump these chicks just because of who they are. Free p*ssy basically handed out. Most of them roam in a Zombie-like-Trance chasing men they will probably never have but they don't care. Usually they have the mentality of a 12 year old school girl in love. Whether it be Twitter, Facebook, Myspace or REAL LIFE, they are EVERYWHERE. They are the Cockroaches of society. THEY WONT GO AWAY!

2.) The 1 Night Stand Hoe - The chick you meet at the club and usually lets someone f**k on the 1st night they meet. Alot of dudes pursue these kind of women cause there's usually no attachment afterwards. You hump, maybe exchange numbers, part seperate ways and think to yourself, damn that was fire but super easy. She was a straight HOE.

3.) The Crew Hoe - The Crew hoe is a female that seems like shes trying so desperately hard to hang out with a certain group of homies. Usually she gets passed around from homie to homie (super gross) but doesnt really seem to care and still hangs out with em even though she KNOWS that they all know wassup.

4.) The Digital Hoe - The ones that send out nude pics to a bunch of different guys and somehow they end up finding out they have the same pic or risque videos. Usually Digital Hoes go in on #TwitterAfterDark and are SERIOUS. Sexting, Skype Sex, and TwitterSex everyone and eventually get humped by a bunch of different men she meets over the web. Twitter has alot of lowkey digital hoes they just dont know it...FACT

5.) The Undercover Hoe - The ones that you KNOWWWW are a hoe yet you are having trouble finding out evidence to prove this and they just remain in denial. Usually it could take months of determined investigation. These are tough but are EVERYWHERE. Also they usually expose themselves when they get drunk and start major "Decepticon Activities". The truth always comes out under the influence (that chick that always makes out with everyone at parties)

6.) The Hustling Hoe - Women that use "The Power of the P*ssy" for money, car ride, food, material items etc...Pretty basic. Using the p*ssy power to pretty much get anything they want (Strippers are best at this as an example...No disrespect)

7.) The Messy Hoe - Off tops example, KAT STACKS. These are chicks that you f*ck and then RUN THEIR MOUTH TO THE WORLD ABOUT IT!!! Usually they try to blackmail a dude to get what she wants or in Kat Stacks case, become famous.

8.) The Virgin Hoe - Yes the VIRGIN hoe really exists. These are chicks that usually talk the talk but never necessarily seem to walk the walk. Virgin hoes will tell guys they got the business or the sex is bomb but dont really put out aka "THE BIG TEASE". Usually they put up a front about how they really get down and just lie forever playing the innocent role. Yeah right... (usually they give out the most HEAD without actual penetration intercourse)

9.) The Cheating Hoe - Pretty self explanatory also. The chick that has a man but clearly dont give a f*ck and is humping another dude on the low. It happens more than what people realize. As long as they dont get caught, they continue. These are usually the females that end up making 2 men fight and ALWAYS have a cloud of drama surrounding them. 

10.) The Oblivious Hoe - better known as "Dumb Hoes". This is the girl that pretty much fits in most of the previous categories i just listed except she really has NO CLUE of her "Hoelike Nature". Total airhead lost in space and just continues her ways. Generally these are the chicks that get taken advantage of, get ran thru, or fall in love with a guy that clearly is just using her for sex whenever he wants it from her.

last but not least we have.........

11.) The Denial Hoe - The chick that KNOWS what she is, she KNOWS how she gets down, she KNOWS everyone knows about her, and even KNOWS when she's clearly been caught. Yet she still has the audacity to say "I don't know what your talking about!! Thats not me. Stop lying about me!! WHATEVER!! >=O " .............so annoying (usually thats most of all of them wrapped in 1)

So there you have it. From years of research this is what I have concluded. Don't get mad. The truth hurts and a lot of women don't wanna here THE KILLER TRUTH from a mans perspective. Men talk about everything and nothing goes unnoticed. WE SEE YOU. Take it or leave it. Maybe this will be a wake-up call for some of you "Hoes" to change. And try not to take so much offense to the word "hoe". I mean hey, even hoes get paid...haha What you dont wanna be called is a SLUT